ok... just lil bit of update... mom decides not to return to work after the holidays.. she will stay home and continue to conserve her energy and spend time finding whatever closures she needs.... I am working all christmas but mom and angela are coming over while Im at work and cooking me christmas dinner as to be ready when I get off work and we can spend this precious time together.. Hope that everybody has a blessed holiday and wonder new year for new fresh start.. god bless